{"id":121,"date":"2010-05-18T15:38:40","date_gmt":"2010-05-18T15:38:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lauraallenmt.com\/blog\/?p=121"},"modified":"2025-09-21T12:20:37","modified_gmt":"2025-09-21T16:20:37","slug":"you-cant-please-everybody","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lauraallenmt.com\/blog\/2010\/05\/18\/you-cant-please-everybody\/","title":{"rendered":"You Can&#8217;t Please Everybody"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m not referring to giving a massage&#8230;I&#8217;d like to think everyone that I&#8217;ve ever massaged was pleased, but in this instance, I&#8217;m talking about my blogs.<\/p>\n<p>I try to report the news in the world of massage politics, and I interject my comments and opinions. I try to spur people to take action when I think it&#8217;s needed, whether that&#8217;s contacting a legislator or one of the professional associations or just spreading the word to other therapists.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, not everyone agrees with me, and that&#8217;s okay. I&#8217;m not here to win a popularity contest, and I would probably keel over from the shock if I didn&#8217;t get the occasional angry phone call or snarky e-mail, or opposing comments on the blog from people who don&#8217;t see it the same way I do. I don&#8217;t censor comments except for really profane language, so even if you call me a moron, it will still be printed.<\/p>\n<p>Occasionally I get an e-mail from one of my mentors trying to rein me in. They&#8217;re worried that my comments are too controversial, or that I&#8217;m going to infuriate the wrong person or some entity on the whole. While I appreciate their concern, I have to follow my conscience, speak my mind, and let the chips fall where they may.<\/p>\n<p>When I&#8217;m reporting on an action concerning a person or an entity that I name in the blog, I am careful to report what&#8217;s verifiable; I only want to print what&#8217;s true. While I state opinion, it is never my intention to slander anyone by printing unfounded malicious gossip and therefore leave myself open to a lawsuit.\u00a0 Believe me; I don&#8217;t print half of what I hear. Some of it has no relevance to the political issue at hand. I leave out juicy details sometimes, because I don&#8217;t think it would serve any useful purpose to include it. I&#8217;m not the National Enquirer talking about Tiger Woods cheating on his wife, although I do hear some of that occasionally. If it&#8217;s not relevant to massage, it&#8217;s not my business.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes I know the person, and sometimes I don&#8217;t. Sometimes I meet them after the fact. That&#8217;s always interesting. If it&#8217;s someone in the legislative or representative community and they&#8217;re not at the top of my radar, I sometimes ask people if I&#8217;ve written anything about them!<\/p>\n<p>When I am reporting on political action by someone in the massage world, it isn&#8217;t a commentary on their personal life. I can disagree with some action that one of the leaders of an organization has taken and blog about that, and it doesn&#8217;t at all mean that I think that person is a bad parent, or a bad friend, or an all-around bad person. It means I am wondering what the heck they were thinking when they took whatever action I am writing about.<\/p>\n<p>Even though I may disagree with someone in one of our organizations, I still appreciate the fact that the person is in service at all, particularly when it&#8217;s a volunteer position, and most board member positions are just that.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, though, there is the occasional incident of getting one&#8217;s self positioned in an organization in the interest of making a lot of money, if there&#8217;s any opportunity for that, or someone who has a personal agenda they want to promote for some kind of gain or even one-upmanship, professional jealousy, or revenge. Rules of professional ethics and by-laws get ignored, or changed in mid-stream to suit the agenda of the person(s) involved. In that case, it&#8217;s not about being in service, and I don&#8217;t feel bad for exposing that. The people I write about aren&#8217;t pleased. But then again, you can&#8217;t please everybody, and I don&#8217;t try.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I try to report the news in the world of massage politics, and I interject my comments and opinions. 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